A friend of mine recently posted this article on his website. I agree with
his conclusions. What do you think?
POSITIVE AND ENCOURAGING?
by Chip Brogden
http://www.TheSchoolOfChrist.Org/articles/positive.html
"And the king of Israel said unto Jehoshaphat, 'There is yet one man,
Micaiah the son of Imlah, by whom we may enquire of the LORD: but I
hate him; for he does not prophesy good concerning me, but evil" (I
Kings 22:8).
At first blush there would appear to be nothing wrong with something
labeled "positive and encouraging." Three Christian radio stations
service my area, and all three of them make the same claim: that they
offer positive and encouraging programming for the whole family. The
appeal is obvious: no one wants to spend a lot of time dwelling on
things that are negative and discouraging.
But I have discovered a flaw in this positive and encouraging,
family-friendly environment that should be addressed. This desire to
provide people with a positive and encouraging experience (whether it
is by radio or by television or by church service or by website)
creates an unrealistic expectation in the hearts and minds of the
audience and congregation who have come to rely on "the ministry" to
keep them properly fed. Content is judged not according to Truth, but
according to how I feel about it. Do I feel good, positive,
encouraged, uplifted, and happy afterwards? If so then all is well.
Or is it?
We must seriously question things that pass themselves off as
"ministry". It is clear that the practice of "ministry" - whether it
comes in the form of a sermon or a song - is becoming synonymous with
"Christian Entertainment." It is not so much what they say as what
they fail to say. The most glaring omission in this positive and
encouraging Christian sub-culture is meaningful reference and
teaching along the lines of taking up the cross and denying self, and
I would suggest this one thing sums up most of what is lacking in
Churchianity today.
I do not mean a wistful remembering of the cross that Jesus died on
for our sins, as this is given a fair treatment. I refer to the
following "positive and encouraging" words from Jesus that somehow
get overlooked:
"He that takes not his cross, and follows after Me, is not worthy of
Me" (Matthew 10:38).
"Jesus said to them all, 'If any man will come after Me, let him deny
himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me" (Luke 9:23).
"So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsakes not all that he
has, he cannot be My disciple" (Luke 14:23).
"If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and
wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yes, and his own life
also, he cannot be My disciple. And whosoever does not bear his
cross, and come after Me, cannot be My disciple" (Luke 14:26,27).
"Someone asked, 'Lord, will only a few be saved?' Jesus answered,
'Make every effort to enter through the narrow gate, because I tell
you this: many will try to enter but will not be able to'" (Luke
13:23,24).
"Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord', will enter the Kingdom of
Heaven, but the one who does the Will of my Father in heaven"
(Matthew 7:21).
"Why do you call Me, 'Lord, Lord' and do not the things which I say?"
(Luke 6:46).
Since taking up the cross is basic to discipleship, why do we not
hear more about it? Because crucifixions are not "family friendly"!
Those who understand the cross in a practical way - meaning, those
who are actually following the Lord Jesus as a disciple - know that
this denial of Self is hardly a positive, encouraging experience.
Dying is not easy! Letting go of my will and embracing the will of
Another is hard! Being crucified daily is not a positive, encouraging
event.
And so, in order to fulfill its obligation to its audience, Christian
entertainers (pastors, preachers, prophets, and performers) must
skirt the issue. If we look hard and long enough we might find
anecdotal evidence of a song here, or a sermon there, or a few words
sprinkled in that seem to hit the mark. Let us thank and praise God
for anything we can get, but a few obligatory references to the true
cost of discipleship every so often tend to get lost in a vast ocean
of Christianspeak that mostly focuses on the positive and encouraging
parts of the Bible and virtually ignores the hard, but necessary,
sayings of Jesus.
Look at what the king of Israel says of Micaiah the prophet: "I hate
him, because he does not prophesy good concerning me." Yes, this is
the heart of it. To a carnal, worldly generation the prophetic word
is supposed to always be positive and encouraging, always speaking
good things concerning me and always tickling my fleshly little ears.
The Micaiahs are not allowed on Christian television, and they are
not welcome in Christian churches. In my spirit I get the sense
sometimes that when you talk about anything that isn't deemed
positive and encouraging the people are sticking their fingers in
their ears, squinting their eyes shut, and shouting "la la la la la
la la la" to themselves. Maybe if we pretend like we don't hear it or
see it then it will go away. We do not want to hear the Truth because
it is too depressing! It makes us feel bad. That, after all, is the
most important thing - not whether a thing is Truth, but whether a
thing makes me feel better!
Those who only seek the positive and encouraging route are those who
gravitate towards the quick fixes and the easy answers; religious
activities that do not require a lot of time and effort, and
preferably, no effort at all. We have special numbers to call for
prayer, and we have preachers to tell us what the Bible says, and we
have Christian bookstores to give us things to read, and we have the
Internet to keep us connected with other Christians, and we have
Christian music playing in the background to keep us in the mood.
What could be easier! Just think how much more effective and powerful
the Early Church could have been if only they had the same positive,
encouraging support system that we have today!
Do you realize that almost every false prophet mentioned in the Bible
is positive and encouraging? That is not to say that to be positive
and encouraging is to be a false prophet, but it illustrates
something. It demonstrates a weakness, a flaw, in human nature. We
naturally embrace those things that lift us up and make us feel good,
and we naturally shun those things that are unpleasant to think
about. A false prophet is able to deceive people precisely because
there is something in humankind that desperately wants to believe
nothing but positive, encouraging things about themselves.
What am I suggesting, that we seek out things that are negative and
discouraging? No, we should not necessarily seek them out, but we
should not automatically shut them out, either. We should seek Truth,
regardless of how it makes us feel, whether it is positive or
negative. Paul says he has no confidence in the flesh.
Over-confidence is a deadly form of pride, and relying totally on
positive, encouraging input is a recipe for disaster. Maybe your only
hope is to lose confidence! If you are in the flesh then you need to
be brought to a place of discouragement - the sooner the better!
Maybe the secret to overcoming is not in shouting the victory but
crying out to God in despair and admitting defeat. What if, instead
of embracing positive and encouraging thoughts about ourselves, we go
to God and freely admit that in spite of all our positive and
encouraging helps we have made a total mess of things and we don't
know what to do?
We need to revisit our Christianized value system and ask some hard
questions. What makes a message "good"? What makes a church service
"edifying"? What makes a Christian song "anointed"? What makes a
ministry "positive and encouraging"? Does God even consider these
things as important criteria at the judgment seat of Christ? Do I
judge these things with righteous judgment, or do I judge them by my
feelings?
Why are a certain Christian personalities popular? Why do I read
their books and listen to their messages? Will a steady diet of
positive and encouraging words cause me to see myself as I am, or
will it seduce me into thinking I'm better than I really am? Do I
wish to be entertained into spiritual dullness or challenged into
spiritual maturity? Am I going to eat cotton candy and bubble gum for
the rest of my life or am I going to seek strong meat?
Sometimes, in spite of my best efforts to put a happy spin on things,
the most positive and encouraging thing I can say to a person is, "I
encourage you to repent, because if you don't, I'm positive that your
life will only get worse. I encourage you to lose all confidence in
yourself, take up the cross, and put your life in the very capable
hands of Another, because I am positive that apart from Him you can
do nothing." The more self-centered you are the more negative and
discouraging this sounds - and that is EXACTLY the way it should be.
Chip Brogden
http://www.TheSchoolOfChrist.Org
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