I have a girl problem

Decency · 06-15-2006, 09:04 PM

Yeah. If she doesn't say anything, why bother? I had a girl imply stuff, to me thats what I thought, but she didn't imply. She was just being nice. So yeah. Just wait and if she does say something, then tell her.

heisouronlyhope · 06-16-2006, 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Epaphras

Then I'd suggest you wait until you are a little older.

yes i am 13 but I didnt want to say so because I know half of the people will say your too young i know i am.

danalyn · 06-16-2006, 04:00 PM

Heisyouronlyhope, I'm pretty sure your signature is too big.

**Simo** · 06-16-2006, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by heisouronlyhope

yes i am 13 but I didnt want to say so because I know half of the people will say your too young i know i am.

If you don't want people to know your age, i suggest you remove it from your profile.

heisouronlyhope · 06-16-2006, 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Simo

If you don't want people to know your age, i suggest you remove it from your profile.

I know but I think your suposted to PM people that kinda stuff when people in posts asks.Why didnt you look at my profile and it says.

hapa_angel · 06-16-2006, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by heisouronlyhope

I know but I think your suposted to PM people that kinda stuff when people in posts asks.Why didnt you look at my profile and it says.

1. First off, your posting style gives away your approximate age anyway.

2. You can remove your age and birthdate from your profile if you don't want people to know personal information like that. You have to be careful about stuff like that, if you're that concerned. Anything you put out on the internet is public knowledge and should be treated as such. You don't know who's out there and who has access to your info, so only put forth what you are comfortable with others knowing.

That being said, back to the original question. Don't sweat the situation, I say. Just hang back and let things progress normally. If ever you do need to confront her about your friendship advancing, the time will come. I really don't think you need to bring something like that up when you don't even know for sure if your friend thinks of you as anything more. As Jason (Murdock) alluded to, that would merely make for an unnesessarily awkward situation.

ForgivenPix · 06-16-2006, 10:20 PM

We understand your feelings because we've been there. So, when we say wait till you're older, we are not looking down on you and saying that your feelings don't count when you're young, we are saying that we've been there and know from experience that it is much much better to wait till you are a little older.

heisouronlyhope · 06-17-2006, 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by ForgivenPix

We understand your feelings because we've been there. So, when we say wait till you're older, we are not looking down on you and saying that your feelings don't count when you're young, we are saying that we've been there and know from experience that it is much much better to wait till you are a little older.

Thats what I meant by the way as in its a waste of time at this age.

twin2006 · 06-22-2006, 01:00 AM

ok so you may not eve ncheck this thread anymore but apart form your age being a factor in why you don't need to date right now ...
a lot of girls do act that way with their guy friends at that age. Most are just natural flirty esp around guys they are close to. I say unless she makes a move don't jeapordize the relationship by telling her that you notice that stuff.

My best friend and I can get flirty at times but we know that's just the way it works sometimes. It's ok to tell her that you value her friendship and are glad that you have girls that can be close to you with out having to worry about the pressures of having a bf/gf relationship...
but don't necessarily tell her that she is leading you to think she wants something other than friendship. That would make it awkward for you if she didn't and for her if she did.
Does that make sense?

God bless

heisouronlyhope · 06-22-2006, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by twin2006

ok so you may not eve ncheck this thread anymore but apart form your age being a factor in why you don't need to date right now ...
a lot of girls do act that way with their guy friends at that age. Most are just natural flirty esp around guys they are close to. I say unless she makes a move don't jeapordize the relationship by telling her that you notice that stuff.

My best friend and I can get flirty at times but we know that's just the way it works sometimes. It's ok to tell her that you value her friendship and are glad that you have girls that can be close to you with out having to worry about the pressures of having a bf/gf relationship...
but don't necessarily tell her that she is leading you to think she wants something other than friendship. That would make it awkward for you if she didn't and for her if she did.
Does that make sense?

God bless

thanks for the advise. Yeah it makes sense.