[4Glory]

I feel that man, I was engaged before, it hurts.
Time is a valuable thing, try to cut ties with most things that remind you of her, its hard but you have to let go and let God.
Trying to keep your mind off of it does help like you've been saying, hanging out with friends etc. I'm always reminded about how Eziekiel had to watch his wife die in front of him and wasn't even allowed to morn for her, give it over to God and in time you'll feel better.
I find going to concerts helped me.