I'm so over it!

Nomes · 03-06-2006, 05:03 PM

I'm so over the planning! I just want to get married - to be married! I know it will all go fast and stuff, it's 102 days today

But I'm tired of trying to work things out and be at work too.

I have to move into our house soon. Brad will follow after the wedding, but it's all so hard to get organised while I'm working. I'm taking some days off next week, but I'll be working on getting my dress finished! The invites aren't done and I need to send them in April. Maaaan!

And the travelling to Brad's all the time is really getting annoying. He lives 20km's from me, driving there all the time is really taxing. And when he comes over he often stays late. I Just need to get some more realistic routine, but that can't happen until after the wedding! arrh!!

JUst venting

**thesteve** · 03-06-2006, 05:17 PM

20km...what is that? 12 miles? you should consider yourself lucky that you only have to drive that far.

though i do understand that the anxiety can be overwhelming...i'm definitely not looking forward to that part of my life.

***BillSPrestonEsq*** · 03-06-2006, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by thesteve

20km...what is that? 12 miles? you should consider yourself lucky that you only have to drive that far.

though i do understand that the anxiety can be overwhelming...i'm definitely not looking forward to that part of my life.

Yeah, me and my wife were approximately 3200km apart. It made planning a bit hairy.

**thesteve** · 03-06-2006, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by BillSPrestonEsq

Yeah, me and my wife were approximately 3200km apart. It made planning a bit hairy.

haha...i believe it...my girlfriend and i currently live about 70km apart, and i suspect that even after i move out of my parents house we'll still live 30-45km apart.

Nomes · 03-06-2006, 05:29 PM

Yes, it's heaps better than that distance. But we did live 150km apart for a year and half of our relationship.

The 20km is heaps better than that. But it does mean that I drive there after work and then have to drive home at 10pm or so. It's really killing me! I'm so worn out!

marvinranch · 05-17-2006, 09:20 AM

I totally know how you feel! By the final week I was SO ready just to BE married!

Now, after it's all over it seems like the ceremony was pretty short....I feel like "that's it?" all this planning and that's it???
Or all this talk about gonna get married, etc. and now that we're married it's not that different!