[Thrash]

But act yourself for her mom
don't put on a show of being nice, because if you do that then it is not coming from ur heart and u are being, for lake of better words, fake.
I fyou have to put on a show to be nice, then reevaluate yourself an dtkae a step back and look at what you are doing wrong. (I am not saying u are fake, just voicing a possible scenario)

Watch out though, sometimes moms get suspicious if you are too nice!!

good luck!!

[patrick1]

thanks for all the advice guys. i guess ill just do my best and be myself and if she can;t like me for that then theres nothing else to do..

[Pre-Ex-Girlfriend]

First, are you sure that it's you her mom is worried about and not just a boyfriend in general? If her mom would consider any guy a distraction, then it seems that patience is your solution.

But if not, then talking to the mom may help. Also, it would probably help to talk to your girlfriend about it. Maybe she would be willing to talk to her mom and kind of stand up for you by showing her that you are not a distraction, if indeed that is the case. Does your girlfriend find that you are distracting her from church?

EDIT: Oops. I just read the second page. I'll leave my comments anyway. Good luck!

[patrick1]

yea i was thinking it could be that but her daughter is 17 so i guess talking to them would be a good idea...