this girl is wonderfull

aznspdrmn · 01-19-2006, 07:48 PM

there is this girl and i really really like her
i mean like i cant stop thinking about her
when she calls me my heart jumps, but there are some akwerd(i think thats how u speel it) silent moments when we walk down the halls
i cant think of anything to say
help

Kiss the Son · 01-19-2006, 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by aznspdrmn

there is this girl and i really really like her
i mean like i cant stop thinking about her
when she calls me my heart jumps, but there are some akwerd(i think thats how u speel it) silent moments when we walk down the halls
i cant think of anything to say
help

"Love is in the air."

It sounks like it's nothing more than a crush, but I don't know how old you are or how mature you may be in your relationships, so I can't make that assumption. In any matter, I wish you luck, whether or not you decide it works out for you.

And when you can't think of anything to say, stop trying to think of something to say and ask questions to get her to talk.

Works most of the time. And she'll like it if you appear to take more interest in her than in trying to find something suave to say. Haha.

aznspdrmn · 01-19-2006, 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Kiss the Son

"Love is in the air."

It sounks like it's nothing more than a crush, but I don't know how old you are or how mature you may be in your relationships, so I can't make that assumption. In any matter, I wish you luck, whether or not you decide it works out for you.

And when you can't think of anything to say, stop trying to think of something to say and ask questions to get her to talk.

Works most of the time. And she'll like it if you appear to take more interest in her than in trying to find something suave to say. Haha.

im 16 and in high school as a junior
but i just dont like her as i would like a girlfriend
some how its different

Kiss the Son · 01-19-2006, 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by aznspdrmn

but i just dont like her as i would like a girlfriend
some how its different

What do you mean?

aznspdrmn · 01-19-2006, 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Kiss the Son

What do you mean?

i mean ive had a girlfriend b4 and that was just to fufill my own selfish desires
but i think of her b4 me...

aznspdrmn · 01-19-2006, 08:01 PM

so this time its diff.

Kiss the Son · 01-19-2006, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by aznspdrmn

so this time its diff.

I would advise you to be sure about how you feel before you get in to anything too serious. But be yourself and enjoy being friends with this girl, and if you find it hard to say something, turn the conversation on her. Take a deep interest in her and show her that you care. Things may start to take off. But if/when they do, be sure you're ready for it. Otherwise, I'd be cautious in how to approach it.

bobthecockroach · 01-19-2006, 08:22 PM

Love... ain't it grand?

OctaviusIII · 01-20-2006, 12:08 AM

One of the most glorious things in conversation with a girl you like, though, is silence. Talk about awkward silence a bit right after a particularly long bout (10 seconds, maybe). But then agree to just be comfortable with silence - it implies that the other's presence is really what you want, not necessarily their words.

Another way is just accept that silence is, and enjoy her presence.

HolyRockJfreak · 01-26-2006, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by aznspdrmn

there is this girl and i really really like her
i mean like i cant stop thinking about her
when she calls me my heart jumps, but there are some akwerd(i think thats how u speel it) silent moments when we walk down the halls
i cant think of anything to say
help

If you can't think of anything to say, it might not be a bad idea of think of something to bring into a conversation or something to talk about, after all us guys can be challenged at talking sometimes. It makes things less awkward and makes things flow, and girls like a guy who can start a conversation and keep it going for a while.

I would try not to think about her too much, liking a girl can be a great thing, but when our mind thinks about it too much it can be unhealthy and can mess with our emotions.

Living Sacrifice · 01-26-2006, 08:26 PM

You seem to be pushing this whole silence theory quite a bit, Octavius. You really believe it don't you? I agree with it, but I think there's a fair amount of people who wouldn't.

OctaviusIII · 01-26-2006, 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Living Sacrifice

You seem to be pushing this whole silence theory quite a bit, Octavius. You really believe it don't you? I agree with it, but I think there's a fair amount of people who wouldn't.

Well hey, when someone says that silence is awkward, the theory comes out, although I'd call it more of an observation that anything. My first kiss was after such a conversation, and I've had many other awkward moments turn intimate because of it. If people don't agree, then it's just their loss, I suppose.

christian_piper · 02-01-2006, 08:44 PM

Get to know her as a friend. It sounds like another crush..

Oh how I hate getting crushes... Meh

PaidInFull · 02-02-2006, 10:50 AM

May I suggest prayer? Its quite possible that it is a crush, being of such a young age. However more could be at steak here. Get to know her and just be good friends, trust me dont rush it.

bobthecockroach · 02-02-2006, 02:35 PM

I really hate doing this...

No, seriously, I do...

..but I have to:

What exactly is a crush, and why isn't it worth pursuing?