..::My DRaMaTiC LiFe::..

undecided_soul · 10-13-2005, 11:56 AM

Well... lately my life has been even more dramatic than ever... About 2 and a half weeks ago I cheated on my bf of 7 months with another guy, Dan, yeah I know, I caused this mess myself... I told my bf about it and he said he still wanted to be with me but I told him I needed a break, after about a week I couldn't take it anymore and asked him back out, meanwhile my BFF (also Dan's exgf) was really mad at me because our crew promised each other that we'd never date each others exs... plus things were a little akward around Dan during this whole thing... Now everything's pretty much back to normal, I'm back with my wonderful bf, Mike, My friend's cool again now, and Dan's been normal, but I still have one MAJOR problem, I'm pregnant and I don't know whose baby it is, I'm pretty sure it's my bfs but I'm not positive, all this and I'm only 15!
Anywhoo, I'll update soon,
Luv,
Krissy<3

nix · 12-23-2005, 01:10 AM

Hi

Welcome to CGR.

How do your parents feel about you being pregnant? Does anyone in your church know?

I see you mentioned in another thread that you and Mike are getting married. Hows that all going?

undecided_soul · 12-26-2005, 12:40 PM

I'll reply here since my other thread got closed... I won't know if it's a boy or girl until it's born... and by June my b/f will be graduated and he'll get a full-time job to support us, I'll get a part-time on eand finish high school (my school offers free daycare til 6pm) and we're living with another young couple that have a baby too, so chances are at any given time at least one of us will be home...
<3Krissy<3

undecided_soul · 12-26-2005, 01:11 PM

My parents have been suprisingly supportive, they've encouraged us to get married... A few people in my church know but not a lot, they'll probably find out soon though... We've actually started to plan our wedding now, we're going to get married about 2 weeks after the baby is born...

Bass_girl · 12-26-2005, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by undecided_soul

My parents have been suprisingly supportive, they've encouraged us to get married... A few people in my church know but not a lot, they'll probably find out soon though... We've actually started to plan our wedding now, we're going to get married about 2 weeks after the baby is born...

You are getting married at 15?

Wow.

nix · 12-26-2005, 03:09 PM

I would suggest you get married before having baby, that way, the baby isn't born out of wedlock!

rkfan4 · 12-26-2005, 06:41 PM

15? wow thats young. how old is your boyfriend?

undecided_soul · 12-27-2005, 06:57 AM

I actually justy turned 16, my boyfriend is 17, he'll be 18 before the baby's born... I thought about getting married before the baby was born and it's still being considered but I've always wanted a summer wedding, but I guess in a situation like this what I want doesn't matter a whole lot...it was my mistake and I guess now I have to face the consequences... <3Krissy<3

rkfan4 · 12-27-2005, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by undecided_soul

I actually justy turned 16, my boyfriend is 17, he'll be 18 before the baby's born... I thought about getting married before the baby was born and it's still being considered but I've always wanted a summer wedding, but I guess in a situation like this what I want doesn't matter a whole lot...it was my mistake and I guess now I have to face the consequences... <3Krissy<3

even though it was a mistake, i hope everything works out for you and your boyfriend.

Rhonda Schofield · 12-28-2005, 08:58 AM

w00t! Another Canadian. Not to mention an EAST COASTER! Sweet. I was actually in NB yesterday. I drove from NS back here to PEI.
Where in NB are you?

- Rhonda.

undecided_soul · 12-28-2005, 08:32 PM

I live in a little hicktown right outside of Fredericton...

undecided_soul · 12-28-2005, 08:39 PM

Well, today was completely and utterly boring, my aunt and uncle were up for a while today, and mom told them about my baby... needless to say they were shocked, but they're kinda excited too... me and Mike went shopping yesterday with my best friend, Kalin, we looked at a bunch of baby stuff, we haven't bought much yet, we're waiting to see what I get at my baby/bridal showers... we're going sometime in January to look at apartments... anywhoo... that's about all that has happened lately... <3Krissy<3

_Chels · 12-30-2005, 04:58 PM

What a touching story that was! I read a book about something like that except the girl was way younger than you. I am sorry to hear about this, but I hope that your baby is raised with love and care and in a Christian home! I wish you all the best, and remember to always pray when things get tough, and even when things are great!

upperground · 05-01-2007, 01:18 PM

ouch, may God be with you the whole way.