["cRaSh"]

I'll try to keep this brief, but I'm in despirate need of prayers. I found some pretty disturbing things on my husband's work computer yesterday. I confronted him about it, and he refuses to talk to me.

I met with one of our pastors today, and he told me to ask my husband to talk with him. I came home, and asked my husband if he would meet with him, and he said no, and to tell them they could revoke his membership if they want to.

He's willing to throw away everything, including our marriage for internet trash. I feel so sick to my stomach. I am worried about his salvation, even if he doesn't want me.

I have decided to leave, and I'm sure it will ultimately end in divorce. This has been an ongoing battle for sometime, and it cannot continue.

Please pray for both of us. It's going to be difficult.

[Art]

You have my prayers, but I certainly would encourage you to continue your attempts at reconciliation.

[I AM ME]

wow, you will definately be in my prayers!

[theedeathstar]

Originally Posted by cRaSh

I'll try to keep this brief, but I'm in despirate need of prayers. I found some pretty disturbing things on my husband's work computer yesterday. I confronted him about it, and he refuses to talk to me.

I met with one of our pastors today, and he told me to ask my husband to talk with him. I came home, and asked my husband if he would meet with him, and he said no, and to tell them they could revoke his membership if they want to.

He's willing to throw away everything, including our marriage for internet trash. I feel so sick to my stomach. I am worried about his salvation, even if he doesn't want me.

I have decided to leave, and I'm sure it will ultimately end in divorce. This has been an ongoing battle for sometime, and it cannot continue.

Please pray for both of us. It's going to be difficult.

Praying.

[Chris]

Definitely try to work it out at any cost. Divorce is a tragedy and should never be an option. I'm praying.

I'm also going to place this into the prayer requests forum as you'll have more people coming in there with the intent of praying rather than advising.

[FoLoGOD]

I'll really keep that in prayer.

[RubberDucky4JC]

im praying for you guys

["cRaSh"]

It's ending guys, and ending badly.

I was told this morning, that the choice of porn over me has been made, and he is resigning his membership from the church.

He thinks he is doing that to punish me, and that it will hurt me. He doesn't understand that I'm trying to help him. He has too many people, including his family telling him that I'm on a power trip, and that it's perfectlly ok to do what he is doing.

He also told me a lot of very hurtful things, to which has permanently damaged the relationship. It's beyond repair. I don't have any choice. Divorce was NOT even an option, but I don't have a choice. You can't be with someone who doesn't want to be married to you, and has planned even before the marriage started for the marriage to end.

Thank you for the prayers. Please continue to pray for both of us. I wish he could realize that people just want to help him, and not control him. He has some major issues, that I'm afraid will never be resolved.

(thank you Chris for moving this)

[sgary]

Porn is a tragic thing, I've got you both in prayer. Have you ever heard of "Lo-Ammi" (Heb. "not my people")? God called Israel this, and check out Jeremiah 3.8, God is a divorcee.

I know God has plans for both of you, you've not renounced God, and He will not renounce you. Hold on to Him, and you'll see.

[Inked in Blood]

Im praying for you too.

[christian_boy_7]

wow...... .....sorry to hear that.......i'll by praying for you both