[marvinranch]

thanks everyone..well im plan on letting him down easy 2day.....i didnt mean 2 meet a 14 yr old on purpose it just happened that way....but im lokin for sumone my age u guys r right thanks

GOOD.

(I sincerely hope you're not just saying that to get us off your back.)

[Major Schultz]

Originally Posted by Art

My advice is to back off immediately from this relationship.

First: He is too young. You may not think so, but at his age, he is going through a lot of changes emotionally and mentally, and will continue to for the next several years.

Second: What you are doing is going to be construed as bad and evil by many, many people. The bible tells us to avoid the appearance of evil.

Third: It is just a bad idea to be 18 and dating someone the age for a high school freshman. I can not see any situation where it is a good idea.

i agree completly. Im not agenst a four year age diffrence, its just in those early years...its kinda weird

[gtrdave]

Originally Posted by .:GuitarGurl:.

Thanks guys but kinda just made me feel bad

I suspect that you wouldn't be on a message board asking for advice regarding this relationship unless you KNEW that there's something wrong with it.

Mind you, that's just a guess.

And my personal opinion is that more-than-likely the guy IS too young or, put another way, too immature although I would also put your own maturity level in check since you're pursuing a 14 year old.

I'm not trying to be mean but just presenting the very vague facts to you as I see them. I don't want to bring condemnation to you...that's not of the Lord...but conviction is from the Holy Spirit.

Again, back to my first point; if your brain and heart...your spirit...were ok with this, you wouldn't be here asking for advice.